If you don’t love someone why even waste your time?
It drives me absolutely crazy when people think sleeping around is wrong and like gross and I get it. Like if you’re being stupid and not protecting yourself or whatever it is gross but I really think being in a relationship is disgusting unless you fully intend on truly loving the other person and wanting to spend your entire life with them. You shouldn’t want a bunch of notches on your bedpost but why would anyone want to be a person who is always in and out of relationships? I’ve never had a relationship and I’ve been talking to the same guy for 8 months and we aren’t official and I from the bottom of my heart want to be with him forever and it’s absurd when people change their boyfriend/girlfriend more often than they change their fucking underwear like stoppp you foolz
my social studies teacher once told us “human beings are the most selfish of all. even when someone dies, you shed tears only because they are no more around to provide you with whatever they had been for so long”
and it has been 3 years since she said this and this is still what i think about at night